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When it’s over
There is a right and a wrong way to end a relationship. Don’t get me wrong I am not saying that it is ever easy. Sometimes people can be good people, but just not good for each other. When a relationship becomes a chore or a burden then it is time to let go. Sometimes people just grow apart and they realize they are headed on different paths and are better off as friends than in a relationship. I have been dumped on Myspace before and trust me that is an example of what not to do and how to end a relationship on bad terms. If you feel like it’s not working out, the best thing to do is be honest with yourself and be honest with the person you are dating. You are young and still finding out a lot about yourself. Treating people the way you want to be treated is the best way to go. You never know when you might cross paths with someone in the future so the best thing to do is to not burn bridges. There will be times when you want to break-up with someone and they do not want to break up. In cases like this you need to talk to that person to communicate your point of view and then listen to their point of view as well. You may have to agree to disagree about why it is ending, but at least each person will leave with a clear understanding of how the other person felt at the conclusion of the relationship. Ending a relationship is not the end of the world. It may feel like it, but knowing this is half the battle. The other half of the battle is talking to your friends and family about your many emotions and moving on. You have your whole life ahead of you. It may be over with that guy or girl but it is just the beginning of another chapter in your life.
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Posted by: Its Nori Nori on 6/9 at 1:00pm 0 Comments
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