When should you consider kissing someone when dating? The answer depends on what kind of kissing we’re talking about. If this is the peck on the cheek variety, it is not something to worry about. However, if we are talking about a French kiss (which is what most folks are doing), then I believe there needs to be some major components in the relationship established beforehand. First, you need to know one another and I don’t simply mean just know names. By knowing I mean that you hang out long enough to know the true person. That leads to the next component which is trust. You should feel safe enough with the other person that you have confidence that they will not physically or emotionally harm you. This develops a relationship in which you can rely on one another to keep each other’s best interests in mind. This is the type of relationship you can commit to, the last component that should be in place. You should be exclusively for one another in the relationship.
You may say, “Jason, you are being too serious. It’s just a little kissing.” I understand that kissing is something that is common in relationships, and that kissing doesn’t have to lead to other things physically, but it typically does lead to other things. Any love scene in a movie begins with a kiss for a reason. A kiss is like a switch for sexual desire. It turns it on. Your body tends to react quickly to the kissing and without strong willpower, it is ready for more. Can you trust this person to be looking out for you?
Am I being too serious about all this? Let me know what you think
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welll….. in my point of view i only pick on the cheek when its just a friend… but if i know that i like the dude then yeah i am going to make-out with him but thats how i feel… not everyone is going to say same thing as me…
Lindsey, you were right. The Eagles are amazing and they beat my Bears. I was for sure the Bears would win since they were at home. No excuses. A defeat is a defeat 
For a comparison to my blog post, the Bears organization has put their trust in Jay Cutler as their quarterback. They gave up alot in a trade for him (2#1 picks plus their starting QB), plus they are paying him quite a hefty salary. This is a huge investment of trust they have made. At this point today, he has thrown more interceptions than touchdowns for the team…which is not what they expected. But they cannot take back the trade or get their money back. In every relationship, you have good times and bad, but in order to put your full trust in someone, you need to get to know them. Anything you do physically cannot be taken back. If the kiss leads to something else, can you trust them to not be selfish? Can you trust the guy or girl you date to have your best interests at hand and live up to expectations? They may look good and make tons of promises, but is it just talk, or will they deliver?
andddd i’m writing this on mrs. clements computer… so idk why it’s logging me in as nori..
JASSSSOOOONN!!! idk how else to contact you so i’m just gonna do it on here. 24-20 SONNNNNN! EAGLES DOMINATION! now you can say yes, lindsey. you were right. the eagles are amazing. and they beat your bears:) woooohhooo! better luck next year! -lindseyyyy.
A little. If you french kiss someone it means you really like them. I agree you should wiat until you know them better and went on at leaset 2 dates before.Just don’t let it get to hot or it will turn into lust.She might take it the wrong way so be patient and careful. Kissing is for love not for lust.
no, because thats a sign of affection toward someone!But you should make sure that you are ready be on that level with that person!
