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He’s Just Not That Into You
Have you ever waited for a guy to call only to find out that he’s never going to call? Have you ever really liked a guy only to find out that he just wants to be your “friend”. I am sure we have all been there and it is safe to say that we have had those friends or even our moms to tell us a story. What story you are asking? The story of the friend that did not get a phone call from a guy for however many days, lets say a week and finally he called. They hit it off great and now they are the best couple in the world and all the other girls wish they had a guy as great as he is.
Well, my friends that is the exception, not the rule. The exception is something that happens maybe once in a lifetime or every blue moon, like the guy calling and asking you out after a week has passed . The rule is the odds of him calling back after a week are not that great.
As young ladies we always try to sugarcoat the truth for ourselves and for our friends. We say things like, “girl, he’s missing out” and “girl, he was not that cute anyway.” When the truth is, he’s just not that into you and your friend did not want to hurt your feelings by saying it. Most teens want to believe that every guy that they like is going to like them back. For the most part, women in general think like this. We as women are so easy going and giving of our hearts to guys that we ignore the big red flags. If he does not call like he said he would that is a red flag! If when he finally answered the phone after you have called him many times and he’s acting extra busy and can’t talk, that is a red flag! We have to do better and not get so wrapped up and emotionally entangled with a guy. We decide to let our feelings be hurt or not. It is up to us to accept the truth for what it is. Maybe he is not interested and that is fine because that makes room for the great guy that will really like you for who you are.
Posted by: Its Nori Nori on 8/3 at 10:53am 0 Comments
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