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Is PDA okay?
Public display of affection is defined by people in so many ways. I think holding hands or seeing someone with their hands around another person’s waist is fine. There are people who take it to the extreme.
Would I want to see people making out? No. I have a child and there are things I don’t want his innocent eyes to see at his age. As for me, I should not have to see any couple getting down like that. I think it is a respect issue. How much do you respect yourself and the person you are with? If there is some degree of respect then PDA will be limited to holding hands and maybe even a peck, but not a lot of tongue action or lip locking and fondling right?
What do you think?
Topic: Dating •Topic: Sex •Topic: Love
Posted by: Anovia on 6/12 at 2:13pm 9 Comments
What is love?
In eighth grade I remember the guys always talking about the girls. “Man, she’s hot.” Or “You think I should ask her out?” Then once we had the guts to ask we would soon find out whether we were going out or being shot down. If we were lucky we’d start going out. The sudden rush of emotions would kick in. Butterflies in our stomach, excited about going out with our “dream girl,” and anxious about not messing it up so we won’t get dumped. If the relationship lasts long enough we move into high school, but the feelings change. Instead of the nervousness and butterflies in our stomach, we start becoming more bold and sometimes make stupid decisions. As most of us know, these decisions are usually about becoming physical. One thing leads to another and before we know it the relationship becomes too serious. This is the difference between love and infatuation. When we’re infatuated with someone we make decisions based on our feelings. If we love someone we will consider someone else’s feelings and we’ll be willing to get to know someone before we move so quickly. Infatuation lasts a moment, but love takes time. So next time you find yourself interested in dating someone, take the time to consider more than just your immediate feelings.
Topic: Love
Posted by: russell on 6/9 at 1:51pm 0 Comments
