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"Why doesn't she have time for me?" |
Thursday, October 28, 2010 So I’m dating this girl, and we have been together for about a month. I REALLY like her, and things are really perfect. BUT, she is really involved in a lot, and even though she only lives like two streets down not 2 minutes walking, we NEVER get to hang out… we have only been alone together on a date just twice in the past 6 weeks. I always offer to come see her but she gets home late and always has homework so she always tells me that i shouldn’t just because it doesn’t work out for her, even though i just want to stop by and say hi. just two minutes of her time… and its not a matter of “does she like me enough to want to hang out,” because we both really like when we do get to hang out. but its just really frustrating asking her to do something as simple as me stopping by to say hi for 5 minutes and continually being turned down. I don’t want to end the relationship, and i don’t plan to just for this, that would be ridiculous. but do you have any advice on h ow to prevent myself from being so let down? The girl you are dating clearly considers school and these other activities a priority. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. You have two choices – you can either change your expectations of the relationship or you can move on. Consider the fact that you can really like someone and realize that at this moment in time it just isn’t meant to be. |
