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"Sex and Love"

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Is it true that your emotions change after you have had sex with this person a lot of times and still don’t feel any kind of love for this guy but he says he loves you and wants to be with you? Can I learn to love and trust him? and how would I know


If you didn’t love the person before you had sex, what would make you think you would love them after sex?  Believe it or not, healthy relationships don’t center around sex.  Sex doesn’t make you fall in love.  If you really want to learn to love someone nix the sex and see if you like his personality, if you share common interests, enjoy just spending time together and whether or not he is trustworthy.  If your relationship with this guy is all physical, that’s not a real relationship.  http://talktofriends.org/blog/comments/what_a_good_relationship_is/

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