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"I'm a Virgin"

Thursday, July 22, 2010

I’m a 17 yr old virgin (sp?) and usually when I tell guys that, they look at me different,.It’s kinda like they see money signs or something, and I don’t like that. Should I not tell them and just change the subject when they ask? If they really want to know the answer they’ll ask again, right?


Stand your ground!  Maybe you want to set the record straight before you go out with them like telling them if you are dating me to get sex forget it.  There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin.  One out of 4 sexually active girls has a sexually transmitted disease - which means there’s a bunch of guys running around who are also infected.  Congratulations!  You don’t have to wonder if you are one of the four girls.  We wonder if those guys who look at you different are interested in a real relationship or just sex…........

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