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"Any tips for helping me snag a boyfriend?"

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Why is it that it seems that every time I find a guy that likes me for who I am something happens and he is scared off?  I’m really starting to think that I just have bad luck.  Do you have any tips to help me snag a boyfriend?


“Snag a boyfriend”!  Why don’t you change that to “find a friend who is male”?  Relationships are best when they start off slow and as friendships.  The more you get to know about him like: what he likes to do, what he doesn’t like, his goals, what you two have in common, and if he is respectful, and trustworthy, the more you will know whether or not he is boyfriend material. 
Being in a relationship is more than just “snagging a boyfriend”.  Relationships take work and maturity.  Slow down! Guard your heart, don’t be too anxious.  It’s ok to just be friends with a guy.  He doesn’t have to be your boyfriend.  Enjoy going on group dates.  You have plenty of time to find Mr. Right. 

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