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"I like 2 guys" |
Thursday, May 26, 2011 I am currently dating one guy ive been with for 9 months and i thought i loved him untill the guy i was dating before him stepped into my life again. Now im tied between the two and is having to choose between them with no idea whats best for me. One is clingy but loving and caring. The other is the guy of my dreams but has the bad boy reputation. What should I do and/or consider between the two? Believe it or not you are on the right track. You’re considering “what’s best for you” as the number one thing and you’re comparing character qualities of these two guys. Along with being caring, loving and their reputation, you should consider trustworthiness, honesty, kindness, his temperament (does he get angry easily), is he a good listener, does he make good decisions, does he have goals for the future, how well does he get along with others and what you have in common are just a few of the things you should consider.
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"Does he love me" |
Friday, March 25, 2011 so me and this guy was together for a long time and then got broken up…we got back together in december and he got my virginity in january.he broke up with me 5 days after.i later found out that i was pregnant.i am now 7 and a half wks along.the day after he broke up with me he got back with his ex gf.hes still with her now but he claims that he wants to be there for the baby.this last wk he has started sayin that he still loves me and wants to be with me and the baby, but hes still dating the other girl.should i trust him enough to give him another chance or should i jus move on with my life? Move on! Actions speak louder than words. His actions reveal more about who he is than his words. Is this what you want for your life and the life of your child? If he really loved you he would not have done anything to put you in the position you are in now. Every decision you make from this point forward not only affects you, it affects your child. You might find this class very helpful. http://firstthings.org/page/classes/loves-cradle |
"Why does she keep coming back to me" |
i’m an my last gf an i had a bad brk up..yet she keeps going to friends of mine..an coming back 2 me an sayig tht she loves me an wishes she could still b with me…but then she goes bck on it an acts like she hates me…she is a closeted bisexual…an she has lost her mom her grandmother..an her uncle in the past few years..so shes messed up..i’m wondering y this may b that she keeps going back on it…is it becuz of not wnting to ‘come out of the closet”? or just being as messed up as she is? or is she just playing me? we were together 4 2 an a hlf monthes..an brk up lst month when she waz going thru a rough patch Although it is tempting to focus on your ex and her stuff, the best thing you can do is focus on you and what is right for you. Encourage her to seek wise counsel from a trusted adult who can help her walk through her issues. |
"I Like Her Again...." |
Thursday, November 4, 2010 I have dated this girl a whole bunch of times in middle school and it never worked out now I am ready for a long relationship with her and I like her again how do I see if she likes me too If it never worked out in middle school what makes you think it will work in high school? Have you thought about why it didn’t work out? How about working on your friendship first and see how that goes before you pursue a “long term relationship”? |
"My Mom Can't Stand Him" |
This boy that I had been dating for almost a month just broke up with me Friday Night and today he wrote me a note saying he wants to date me again and that he still likes me. Problem is, my mom can’t stand him. She told me not to date him again. What should I do? I like him but my mom doesn’t. HELP me Please!!!!
A couple of things come to mind – first, as much as it might bug you that your mom doesn’t like him don’t discard her opinion. Sometimes when you are in the middle of something it is really hard to look at it objectively. Don’t’ forget, your mom was a teenager once too! Second, the fact that he broke up with you on Friday and wants to get back together a few days later would make us wonder what he is up to. Does he really like you or is the relationship convenient? Do you really like him and is he worth all this drama. Dating should be fun and stress free. Not knowing from one minute to the next where you stand with him is a pretty miserable way to have a relationship. Maybe you should consider just giving your friendship some time and depending on how things go you may or may not want to get back together with him. |
"Why is he so jealous?" |
Thursday, October 28, 2010 Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. We are both in love with each other and he’s very good to me. But he gets extremely angry/protective when I talk to this other guy. They used to be friends but now they hate each other. My boyfriend has threatened to beat up the other guy if he continues to talk to me and/or “flirt” with me. I’m scared that this could be taken too far and I just need to know what should I do? I love my boyfriend and the other guy is like my best friend. We want to encourage you to talk with a trusted adult about this situation – Your parents, a teacher, your guidance counselor. You are wise to be concerned that this could get out of hand. You do not need to handle this by yourself. This is not a good situation. |
